A lot of men have a lot of trouble getting laid from classified sex ad sites. I do sympathize. A bit. It can be intimidating to put yourself out their online to thousands of women that you really want to date. You can be nervous about how they will react to what you have to say, worried that you will get zero interest, and concerned that you are just wasting your time. But with very little effort and just a little bit of thought, you can change your worries about online dating into real confidence that your classifieds, ads, profiles, and messages are going to entice and attract exactly the women you want them too, and then you can get out there and date these same girls just like you came here for.
Exploring The World
By best tip when you want to start online dating is to start by not doing it. I know odd, but hear me out. Too many people just jump straight into online dating, either through specific dating websites, or by posting here on those classified sex ad sites, without finding out more about the world they are about to get into. The just pick a site, seemingly at random, add a post or put up an advert, and then expect the world to come calling. Better is to sit back and see what each type of site offers, what people are posing on there, and what type of people are posting on there. Then you can see where you are going to fit in in the ecosystem and what is going to be best for you. For instance, if you are just after a friend with benefits for a quick hump one in a while, then there is no point signing up to iwannahubby.com (I don’t know if that exists, but I might buy the domain name if not), because probably the women there are not after no-strings sex. Equally, if you want to keep things local, then posting on a nationwide site might not be a good idea. If you live in Phoenix, Arizona there is no point trying to get women in Portland, Maine. Instead you should be trying to post ads on local sites where you ratio of success is going to that much higher.
The Jerk Ad
Of course, you might be sitting there with an ever-reddening face as I have just described you to a tee. If you read through your ads or profiles and you are either talking about your car, or how fit you are and expecting that is all it is going to take, then you really need my help. You are coming across as just a jerk online and men and women are probably reading your ads or profiles and chuckling to themselves, before they move on to read something original, witty and wise. Make sure those three adjectives describe your next post.Original, witty, and wise might seem like a lot to pack into such a small advert or profile, but actually you can get that just from one sentence. Try coming up with a weird profile that will stand out from all the rest, describing you as an ex soybean miner from the darkest Amazonian rainforest and how you have had to fight your way to Arizona, through torrential rain and harrowing sun, over the highest hills and dankest valleys, just for the chance to post an ad on PhoenixLoversOnline.com. OK, stupid, but different to everything else she is going to read, and possibly different enough to stay with her.
Once you have piqued some interest, you have to remain interesting (at least until you have slept with her). Therefore, it pays to make sure that however you sound in your first ads really does describe you, and you are not just trying to come up with the best first message, because if you do then all the future ones will fail. Always be yourself, or at least, a much better, more interesting and witty version of yourself. This way you will be able to maintain this level of interest from other parties and transition these online chats into dates and more, which is the whole point of the game.